1. Whoever cares less has all the power. No one wants to be the "most interested person" in the relationship. 2. Because we always want to show the other person how blase we can be, psychological games like 'Intentionally Take Hours or Days to Answer a Message' will happen. They are not fun. 3. A person being detached because he has zero interest in you seems exactly like a person being detached because he thinks you are incredible and is making a conscious effort to pretend that he is not even there. Good luck trying to figure out who's who. 4. Phone calls are an art in decadence. Most likely, much of your relationship's communication will happen through text, which is the most detached and impersonal form of interaction that exists. You can now create intimacy with the emoticon options. 5. Plans in advance are dead. People have options and last minute updates of their friends' locations (or other potential novels) thanks to messages and social networks. If you are not the priority, you will hear a "Maybe" or "We will talk" as a response to your call for an exit and the deciding factor (s) will be whether the person received offer more fun / interesting than you. 6. That someone who hurt you will not automatically have bad karma. At least not in the immediate future. I know it sounds nothing less than fair, but sometimes people cheat and cheat and continue their lives happily while the person they left behind is in tatters. 7. The only difference between your actions being considered romantic or frightening is how attractive the other person finds you. That's it, that's all. 8. "Go out?" And "Let's do some?" Are vague phrases that probably mean "let's get caught" - and while you probably hate getting one, they are the most common way to invite someone to spend some time with you nowadays, and apparently they've come to stay. 9. Some people just want to get you and if you're looking for more than sex, they will not tell you "Alow, I think I'm the wrong person for you." At least not before you release the tindolelê. While human decency is ideal, honesty is not mandatory. 10. The message you sent has arrived. If he did not respond, you can be sure that it was not because of malfunctioning mobile operators.
11. So many people are afraid of commitment and of being serious with someone who continues an undefined relationship that ends up confusing things and only works until it no longer works. I've said it over and over, and I'll say it again - "we're just friends" is to open the door to a betrayal that was technically not treason because, hey, you were not together. 12. Social media creates new temptations and opportunities to betray. Inbox messages and options for a subtle flirtation (eg enjoying the photo of others) do not serve as an excuse or evidence of betrayal, but they certainly increase the chances of that happening. 13. Social media can also create the illusion that you have options, which leads people to see Facebook as a menu of attractive people rather than a way to keep in touch with friends and family. 14. You probably will not see much of the genuine, unfiltered personality of someone until you are in a relationship. Usually people are afraid to show how they really are and seem too available, too anxious, too nerdy, too nice, too safe, not funny enough, not cute enough, not someone else enough to be welcomed. 15. Anyone with whom you engage romantically, or you will be together forever, or will end up at some point. And both are concepts are equally scary. 16. When you are dating, instead of expressing how you feel directly to you, it is more likely that the person posts this in Facebook status or Instagram, a Tumblr photo, of a sunset with a phrase or excerpt of music with someone else's words, and while you can not even mention his name, it's clearly for you. 17. There are many people who have zero respect for your relationship and if they want the person you are with, they will not scruple in trying to push the boundaries to win the victim. Girl Code and guy code are illusions and human code is not incorporated at all. 18. If you take one out, it will probably be pretty brutal. People can cut ties over the phone and avoid having to see the tears rolling down your face or end it all by message and avoid hearing the pain in your voice and your runny nose. Send a long text and voila, the relationship is over. The easy way is far from being the most attentive. Source: DM
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